childcare and behaviour therapy: a guide for parents
9 February, 2026
Building Foundations: The Intersection of Childcare and Behaviour Therapy

For parents of young children, the early years are a whirlwind of milestones, from the first steps to the first words. But for some families, this period also brings questions about development and behaviour. If you are navigating a diagnosis like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), ADHD, or simply noticing that your child struggles with emotional regulation, you might be exploring two critical support systems: childcare and behaviour therapy.
Historically, these two worlds operated separately. You dropped your child off at daycare for socialization and play, and you took them to a clinic for therapy. Today, however, we understand that the magic happens when these worlds collide. Integrating therapeutic support directly into the early learning environment is one of the most effective ways to help children thrive.
This guide explores the powerful synergy between childcare and behaviour therapy, offering practical insights for parents who want to ensure their child receives consistent, holistic support during these formative years.
Understanding the Connection
To understand why combining childcare and behaviour therapy is so effective, we first need to look at the goals of each.
- Childcare focuses on socialization, early literacy, play-based learning, and independence. It is a natural, dynamic environment filled with peers, noise, and routine transitions.
- Behaviour Therapy (often rooted in Applied Behaviour Analysis or ABA) focuses on understanding the "why" behind behaviours and teaching functional skills to replace challenging ones.
When a Behaviour Therapist works within a childcare setting, they bridge the gap. They take the skills learned in a structured therapy session—like asking for a turn or waiting patiently—and help the child apply them in the "wild" of the classroom.
The Benefits of Integrated Support
Why should parents advocate for a model that blends childcare and behaviour therapy? The benefits extend to the child, the family, and the educators.
1. Real-World Skill Application
A child might be able to identify emotions on a flashcard in a quiet room, but can they identify that their friend is sad when they are crying in a busy sandbox? Therapy in childcare allows for "naturalistic teaching." The therapist can guide the child through real-life social interactions as they happen, making the learning deeper and more durable.
2. Early Intervention in Natural Settings
Research consistently shows that early intervention is key to positive long-term outcomes. By embedding therapy into the place where the child spends the majority of their day, we maximize the hours of therapeutic support without exhausting the child with extra appointments after school.
3. Empowering Educators
Early childhood educators are superheroes, but they often care for large groups of children with diverse needs. A collaboration between childcare and behaviour therapy professionals provides educators with extra tools. Therapists can model strategies—such as using visual schedules or positive reinforcement—that help the specific child but often benefit the entire class.
Key Strategies Used in Childcare Settings
When childcare and behaviour therapy come together, specific evidence-based strategies are used to support the child’s success.
Visual Supports
Language processing can be difficult for young children, especially when a classroom is noisy. Therapists often introduce visual aids, such as:
- First/Then Boards: "First clean up, then snack."
- Visual Timers: Showing how much time is left for an activity to reduce anxiety during transitions.
- Choice Boards: Allowing non-verbal children to communicate their wants effectively.
Positive Reinforcement
Behaviour therapy relies heavily on catching the child doing well. In a childcare setting, this might look like a "token economy" where a child earns a sticker for sitting nicely during circle time, eventually earning a reward. This shifts the focus from punishing bad behaviour to celebrating success.
Social Scaffolding
"Go play with your friends" is a vague instruction for a child with social deficits. A therapist provides scaffolding by breaking this down: "Let's walk over to Sam. Say 'Hi Sam.' Ask, 'Can I have a block?'" Over time, the therapist fades their prompts as the child becomes more independent.
How to Facilitate Collaboration
As a parent, you are the captain of your child's team. Here is how you can foster a strong partnership between your childcare and behaviour therapy providers.
Open Communication
Ensure that your childcare centre is open to external therapists visiting. Most centres welcome the extra support, but they need to know that the therapist is there to collaborate, not to critique.
Consistent Goals
Your Individualized Education Plan (IEP) or therapy goals should be shared with the childcare staff. If the goal is for the child to self-feed, the daycare staff needs to know not to spoon-feed them during lunch, even if it’s messier or slower.
Regular Meetings
Schedule a monthly or quarterly meeting where the therapist, the lead educator, and the parents sit down together. Discuss what is working, what isn't, and update the support plan. This ensures that the childcare and behaviour therapy strategies remain aligned.
Challenges to Anticipate
While the integration of childcare and behaviour therapy is ideal, it is not without challenges.
- Logistics: Finding a time for the therapist to visit that doesn't disrupt nap time or specific lessons can be tricky.
- Different Philosophies: Sometimes, a clinical approach can clash with a play-based educational philosophy. Mutual respect and flexibility are required to find a middle ground.
- Cost: Funding for private therapy in schools varies by region and insurance plan. It is important to understand your financial coverage early on.
Conclusion
The journey of raising a child with unique needs is a marathon, not a sprint. By weaving together the social richness of childcare and behaviour therapy, you are building a robust support system that surrounds your child with consistency, understanding, and opportunity.
When educators and therapists work together, the classroom becomes a place where every child—regardless of their developmental path—can feel safe, successful, and celebrated.
If you are looking for guidance on how to merge childcare and behaviour therapy for your child, we are here to help. Our team of experienced professionals specializes in collaborative, school-based support.
Contact Us Today to schedule a consultation or call daar at 02 9133 2500 and learn how we can help your child thrive in their early learning environment.
FAQ: Childcare and Behaviour Therapy
How is this different from a special education preschool?
A special education preschool is designed entirely for children with additional needs. Integrating childcare and behaviour therapy in a mainstream centre allows your child to be in an inclusive environment with neurotypical peers, which models appropriate social behaviour and language.
What if the childcare staff resists the therapist's advice?
This can happen. It is usually a matter of communication. Frame the therapist's role as a support to make the teacher's job easier, not harder. If resistance continues, a meeting with the Director may be necessary.
Is behaviour therapy only for bad behaviour?
No! The name is a bit of a misnomer. While it does address aggression or tantrums, it is equally focused on teaching skills: communication, toilet training, playing with toys, and following instructions.